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Why Constantly Looking for Approval Can Leave You Feeling Disconnected from Yourself
Learn how approval seeking, people pleasing, and low self-worth can leave you emotionally exhausted, disconnected, and struggling in relationships.

Darrell Collett
4 min read


Being in Love, and Being in Life.
When I was in high school in the UK, one of my teachers (Mr Leonard) shared something personal that stayed with me. He said that he not only loved his wife, but that he genuinely liked her. He spoke about friendship as the backbone of their relationship. At the time, it felt simple. Over the years, I have come to understand how quietly profound that idea really is. When Care Remains but Connection Fades In my work with couples, I often meet people who care deeply about one an

Darrell Collett
2 min read


The Tinsel Tangle and Rituals of Connection: What Christmas Can Teach Us About Strengthening Our Relationships
Untangling The Tinsel Tango Together As the year edges toward Christmas, many of us find ourselves pulled between excitement, stress, nostalgia, and the weight of “so much to do.” For many, the holidays can bring joy and connection - but possibly also financial pressure, disrupted routines, school holiday stress, family tension, loneliness, or the ache of missing loved ones who are overseas or no longer here. In the middle of all of this, it’s easy for our intimate relation

Darrell Collett
3 min read
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