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Why Some Parents Feel Overwhelmed by Their Child’s Emotions
Understanding parental dysregulation, nervous system overwhelm, and the fight, flight, freeze response. When Your Child’s Distress Feels Emotionally Overwhelming Many parents expect parenting to be emotionally demanding. What they do not expect is how overwhelming it can sometimes feel when their child cries, screams, protests, withdraws, or becomes emotionally distressed. For some parents, their child’s distress can trigger feelings of panic, anger, shutdown, helplessness, o

Darrell Collett
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Why Mother’s Day Isn’t Easy for Everyone. Understanding Grief, Loss and Complex Mother Relationships
Why does Mother’s Day feel hard for some people.
Mother’s Day can be difficult when there has been loss, estrangement, trauma, or complex relationships with a mother or child. The day can highlight what is missing, unresolved, or painful, especially when social expectations focus only on celebration.

Darrell Collett
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When Control is a Way Of Coping
Making sense of difficult family dynamics In some families, there can be a sense that one person holds more control in relationships, or is experienced by others as critical, hard to please, or difficult to be around. At other times, it may not be as clear-cut, but there can still be recurring tensions that seem to circle around similar themes. When this happens, it can be easy for one way of understanding a person to take hold and become quite fixed over time. But family re

Darrell Collett
4 min read
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